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top 11 reasons kung bakit single ang status

top 11 reasons kung bakit single ang status

*11. destiny /adik*

eto yung mga naghihintay kay "destiny" na gumawa ng paraan para pagtagpuin sila ng kanilang mga "partner in life".. ayannn... kakapanood nyo ng "serendipity" eh feeling nyo ang nangyari sa movie eh mangyayari rin sa inyo... such a cliche.. hindi ba nyo alam na kung walang effort destiny is useless.

*10. perfectionist/ mapili*

yes, isang taong perpeksiyonista. yung tipong "dapat ganito ang magiging kapartner ko". pag may nakilala, nakita lang na pangit ang kuko o may dumi lang, turn-off na agad. o kaya ang daming ayaw. ayaw sa mabait, boring daw, gusto bad boy/ pilya pero kapag pinaiyak ka tatanungin ka "bakit ang sama mo", "bakit mo nagawa yun!"... adik ka ba?!... ayaw sa cute, ayaw din naman sa panget. meron dyan gusto ka ayaw mo naman.. yung gusto mo halos magtambling ka pero deadma pa rin yang stunts mo sa kanya! pasaway ka rin e! ano ba talaga kuya/ate?

*9. busy busyhan*

opo, eto yung ang mundo e gumagalaw lang sa libro at ballpen kung estudyante ka o kaya naman sa computer at files kung office staff ka. yung tipong aalis ng bahay ng alas 6 o alas 7 ng umaga at uuwi ng bahay ng 6 hanggang alas 8 ng gabi [baligtad naman para sa mga nag tratrabaho sa call center]. sabay tulog na. kapag sabado masaya na sila sa tv, sa pagkain na niluluto ni mama at sa linggo naman sisimba at maghahanda na ng kelangan para sa lunes hanggang byernes. pssssst.. pause for a while naman!

*8. friendship theory*

ano naman ito?... eto yung ang buhay ay kay bestfriend o kaya kay special friend, na hindi masabi-sabi sa friendship nya sa loob ng kanilang mahabang panahon na pagsasama, dahil baka daw maapektuhan ang pakikipagkaibigan at iwasan sya. yung tipong pag may kasama si friendship na iba, nagseselos na wala naman sa lugar, pero syempre wag pahalata, kunyari happy sya for friendship. aba ! oi! lakasan mo ang loob mo at baka mamaya forever mong pagsisihan yan, kaw rin!... minsan pa naman pareho pala kayong naghihintayan.. hmmp!

*7. born-to-be-one (autistic)*

eto yung nasa palad na ang pagiging single daw. walang reasons. basta lang nabuhay sya sa mundo na mag-isa at feeling nya mamamatay sya sa mundong mag-isa. kesyo magmamadre o magpapari na lang... asa kang tatanggapin ka pa noh!

*6. happy-go-lucky*

eto yung taong walang alam kundi kasiyahan at trippings. kahit sino na lang basta no strings attached. for fun lang daw... walang halong seryosohan. aba hoy! yang init ng katawan mo e ikiskis mo na lang sa pader. makakahanap ka rin ng katapat mo!!!

*5. wrong place*

may nakaranas na ba nito? yung pakiramdam mo nasa ibang mundo ka. yung ang nakakaharap mo e yung mga hindi mo gusto, yung mga hindi mo hinahanap. alam mo yun? halimbawa nasa ibang bansa ka, pero ang hinahanap mo e yung amoy ng nasa sariling bayan mo. o kaya naman e nasa sarili mong bayan ka, nasa normal na lipunan, pero ikaw ang abnormal at hindi mo kayang sabihin na abnormal din ang hanap mo kung ayaw mong ibitin ka nila ng patiwarik.

*4. wrong time*

eto yung mga tao na sinasabi na "hindi pa ako ready e, bata pa kasi ako" o kaya naman "hindi pa ako handa sa panahong ito", "wala pa ako kayang ipagmalaki". yes meron pong ganyan. yung feeling nila may tamang panahon para sa love. awwwwwww!... aba kelan yun?!... pag uugod-ugod ka na at yung time mo e bitin na? o baka naman pag pang-out of time ka na? oist, sugod lang ng sugod!

*3. si parents kasi...*

yes, factor din ang komyunidad na ginagalawan mo. una, ayaw pa ni mader o pader na magkaron ka kahit 22 anyos ka na at kelangan umabot ka muna raw ng 40 bago magkaroon ng gf/bf. o kaya naman ikaw mismo! takot sa sasabihin ni parents at ni kapitbahay na tsismosa sa magiging kasama mo. aba ikaw na nga ba ang sabihan na "alam mo hindi kayo bagay. langit at lupa kayo." awwwww!... payo ko sayo, "pakialam nila diba?... palibhasa inggit!"

* 2. traumatic experience*

eto kalimitan ang reason ng marami. "ayaw kona!!! takot na ako mangyari pa ang nangyari dati!"... o diba, ang drama ng layp?... yes, tama ka. eto yung dahil sa past relationship mo, e until now aayaw mo nang magkaroon at sinumpa mo na ata ang magmahal. dahil sa pinagpalit ka sa mas pangit, o kaya naman iniwan ka ng walang word a bye-bye, o dahil binugbog ka!, anopa ba?... madami yan wag na nating isa-isahin at baka tumulo si tears, heheh... gayunpaman, eto lang masasabi ko mga hija at hijo... ibat-iba ang lasa ng pag-ibig. may mapait, may mapakla, may matamis at may maasim. aba , mapalad ka at natikman mo ang ibat-ibang lasa nito! kaya ikaw, "do not be afraid to fall in love again... malay mo, sweetiness na ang malasahan mo next time.! e di panalo ka sa lotto! yan ang nagpapalakas sayo... yan ang bumubuhay sayo... ang pag-ibig. tsk! drama!


  • 1. ex to the nth power*

oi, aminin!!! love pa rin si ex kahit 1 or 2 yrs na ang nakakalipas. may ganito naman. yung tipong ilang taon na ang nakakalipas, hindi pa rin makalimutan si ex. yung pinagsamahan, yung tawanan, yung iyakan, at lahat ng nangyari sa inyo nung kayo pa. malungkot man at sa kung anumang kadahilanan, maganda man o masama ito, kelangan nyo ng magpaalam sa isa't-isa... yes, after a year sasabihin natin, "i'm over him/her na.", pero pag-usapan natin ang love at ang nangyari sa ating relastionship from the past, tadannnnnnnnnnnnn, eto na, sya agad ang naalala mo. at habang nagkukwento ka, ouch! may kirot, o kaya may ngiti at may bumabagabag sa iyong kalooban. ano kaya yun?!... aminin mo na kasi, mahal mo pa si ex...isa lang ang masasabi ko, well, mahirap sya kalimutan alam ko yan, pero open your heart and try to entertain someone. wag mo ikumpara si ex sa iba. at give urself a kitkat, take a break.

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The 12 Reasons It's Better to Be Gay

this was given to me by 1 of my gay friend...i just wanna share this to you all :)

The 12 Reasons It's Better to Be Gay

1. The Sex.

By far, the best part about being a gay dude is that sex is totally easy. I know this sort of propagates the whole 'gay men are sluts' meme, but it's the god's honest truth. Men like sex and so, stick two of us together and sex comes pretty easily. It's a fact of life that lots of gay men, meet, hook-up and become friends and when we tell this to our straight friends, they're very jealous.

If you really want to depress your straight friends, explain that your partner will never withhold sex until you do the dishes or take out the trash or what not. Never happens.

Oh– and nobody ever gets accidentally pregnant!

2. Double the wardrobe.

This is an old Seinfeld joke, but as a closet full of ex-boyfriends' clothes (we trade!) attests to, you don't just get the boy, you get his fashion, too. There's something incredibly sexy about seeing the guy you're into hopping into your jeans.

3. We're more open-minded.

Look, I'm a blond-haired, blue-eyed white boy who grew up in middle-class suburbia. I'd like to think that I would be a tolerant, open-minded person regardless of my sexuality, but being gay has done a lot to make me a better human being There's a world of difference between sympathy and empathy and knowing what it's like to be treated differently simply because of who you are. It opens your mind to the casual racism and classism in this country.

4. We can ask for directions.

Lost your way? No reason to demand you know the right way to go, just pull over and ask a gas station attendant. Can someone explain to me why straight guys can't do this?

5. We do not presume every straight person wants to sleep with us.

Without fail, at some point in the friendship of every straight pal I've ever had, they've alluded to the fact that I must secretly want to bang them. I used to explain to most of them that they aren't my type, but after one-too-many bruised egos, I've learned to keep quiet and just smile.

6. All these awesome people.

Sexuality crosses so many boundaries that when you're gay, you're bound to meet people who are not like you. In seeking out people who are like you, you inevitably meet people who are not like you at all. One of my first friends at college was this gay guy named Don. We bonded over a love of Kenneth Branagh and the Dewey Decimal System, and when I dumped my first college boyfriend, Don was worried I was doing it to be with him and divulged to me that he was a female-to-male transsexual. At 19, this blew my mind and I had all sorts of questions: "Why would you go from being a straight woman to being a gay guy?" ("All the good ones are gay"), "But, it'd be so much easier!" ("Yeah, but I've always seen myself as a boy—sexuality is independent of gender") and while we didn't find love, we became best friends. I don't know that's something that would have happened if I were straight.

7. The Toaster Oven.

As you all know from your own coming out experience, one of the great gay thing about being gay is all the toaster ovens you get when your recruit new gays to the cause. The only down shot of this is that, at this point, I'm eating toast morning, noon and night.

8. We're not threatened by strong-willed women.

In fact, we love them and idolize them. If you're a gal who knows what she wants and is willing to claw and fight to make it in a man's world, gay men will be there cheering you all the way. The straight boys will cower in fear and call you a bitch. Bitch? Honey, you have no idea.

9. It's easier to be yourself.

We don't envy our straight male buddies. There's a lot of discussion about female gender roles being constricting, but most guys don't even talk about it; it's just "drink beer, watch football, dress slobby." One of the great things about the gay rights movement is that it's making it easier for straight guys to be themselves and express non-standard interests. For gay guys, it's just expected. Want to unrepentantly sing musical theater songs in the shower? Go for it. For instance, I'm a nerdy bookworm. I talk about the Books Review section with my friends. I drag friends to art gallery openings—and until this moment, I never really thought twice about what people might say about it.

10. It is much easier to get cast in a reality TV show.

Oh, so you juggle, are related to the royal elite and live on the back of your motorcycle? Awesome. We're gay and have snappy catchphrases. Do you really want to compete?

11. We have friends everywhere.

Go to any city and ask where the gay district and you'll have an instant network. Gays are all about creating their own families and, for the most part, we take kindly to strangers. In fact, a lot of the time, we don't even have to try. How many times has someone come up to you and said, "Hey, you have to meet my friend, Kenny! He's gay too!" which can get really old, but how many straight guys have a cavalcade of girls trying to set them up? Exactly.

12.To the kids, we are the coolest members of our family.

Everyone loves the guncle. You bring the coolest toys, you listen to what the kids say and when they come over, they get treated like royalty. While some of the adults in your family may judge you, to the kids, you are God—God with a frozen hot chocolate.

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its time to make change..........

you might regret putting and end
to something that once made
you smile

you might even cry your eyes out
whenever you miss the way it
used to be

but
remember that TIME heals
almost everything.

and the Time will come when you'll
no longer cry when you
remember it.

instead you'll smile and think how
better off you are since then....

chow.......c",)

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